Here’s the part that catches most people off guard: after someone dies, nobody tells the banks. There’s no automatic system. No master switch. Until a person reaches out, the accounts keep running, the credit cards keep accepting charges, and the auto-drafts keep draining.
That person is usually you. And the good news is it doesn’t have to happen in one afternoon. Here’s the order most executors use—and what each notification actually needs.
Start With a Short List
Before you pick up the phone, make a list of every account you’ve found: checking, savings, credit cards, mortgage, auto loans, investment accounts, utilities on autopay. Look at the last three months of statements and email. Don’t worry about being complete—you can add to it as things surface.
Then pull together what you’ll need for most calls:
- A certified death certificate with the raised seal (not a photocopy)
- The account number or last four digits
- A copy of your letters testamentary from probate court—if you have them yet
- A phone number and mailing address where you can be reached
Banks and Credit Unions Come First
Banks are the biggest domino. Once they know, they’ll freeze the accounts, stop any pending auto-drafts, and start the process of releasing funds to the estate or named beneficiaries.
Call the number on the back of the card or on the most recent statement and ask for the “deceased account services” or “estate services” department—most larger banks have one. They’ll tell you what to send and how (usually a copy of the death certificate and your letters testamentary, mailed or uploaded through a secure portal). Joint accounts typically transfer to the surviving owner. Solo accounts usually freeze until probate clears.
Credit Card Companies Next
Credit cards work differently. The balance doesn’t disappear—it becomes a claim against the estate. Don’t pay anything out of your own pocket. The estate pays valid debts during probate.
Call each card issuer, ask for the estate or bereavement department, and request a written confirmation of the balance as of the date of death. If you were an authorized user (not a joint account holder), the card gets closed and you’re not personally responsible for the balance. Joint accounts are trickier—talk to an attorney before assuming anything.
Other Creditors and Auto-Drafts
Mortgages, car loans, utility companies, gym memberships, streaming services—each one needs its own call. For anything on autopay, the goal is to stop the draft before the next cycle so the estate account doesn’t get drained by bills nobody can use anymore.
Mortgages and car loans get paid from the estate during probate. The property usually stays in place until probate closes. Small recurring charges (gym, streaming, subscriptions) can usually be canceled with a phone call and a copy of the death certificate.
Credit Bureaus and the Fraud Flag
Identity theft of deceased people is real and common. Once you have a death certificate, send a copy to each of the three major credit bureaus—Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion—and request a “deceased” flag on the credit file. This blocks new accounts from being opened in their name. Each bureau has its own mailing address and process; a quick search on their sites will get you there.
What to Do Next
- Make your list of accounts before you start calling—one spreadsheet saves hours
- Start with banks, then credit cards, then auto-drafts, then credit bureaus
- Keep a log of every call: date, who you spoke with, what they asked for, and what you sent
- Send death certificates by certified mail or upload portal only—never regular mail
- Don’t pay debts out of personal funds until you’ve talked to a probate attorney
Lumeway’s Estate bundle includes step-by-step worksheets for notifying banks, credit card companies, creditors, and credit bureaus. The Bank Death Notification Letter and Creditor Notification Letter give you a starting format for each call. The Account Inventory Worksheet keeps every institution, account number, and status in one place so nothing falls through the cracks.
The Estate bundle includes 16 step-by-step worksheets for notifications, benefits, and account closures. Organizational tools for the hardest days. Browse planning tools at lumeway.co.
You don’t have to call everyone today. You just have to start the list.
This post is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, or medical advice. Consult a licensed professional for guidance specific to your situation.